3.8.13 (or 8.3.13 as Ghanaians write it)
This morning I woke up in a funk.
I felt like I was one of those cartoon characters walking around with a
thunderstorm cloud over my head. It was one of those days. I wafted through
this morning in a haze of badly hidden misery, sweeping, bathing, making my bed
up to my host mom’s anal eye’s acceptance, eating a breakfast of porridge, and
washing my clothes. After wasting my morning away waiting for plans to come,
nothing evolved to a conclusive being. Yet, instead of moping like I am sadly renowned
for, I decided to do something about it.
I spent the first month of my time in Ghana
utterly freighted of even stepping outside of my gated house. Unable to stand
the constant scrutiny of being white in a fringe town of a city in West Africa,
I hid myself away.
I am sick of that part of me. The
part of me that wallows, hides away from the world. It is a waste of my time
and I was in the mood to go. With the song “I Gotta Go” by Robert Earl Keen
coursing through my veins, I left my house. Having no idea where I was headed,
I marched myself to the tro-tro station. I allowed myself little time for
deliberation, for it didn’t matter where I went, I just had to go SOMEWHERE and
do SOMETHING. I ended up playing it
safe, taking a Stadium-Junction car. It is the same car I take to school every
day but I had never been to the last stop. I always got off at either Unity Oil
or Stadium, depending on if I was going straight to school or to training
first. Once I alighted from the tro-tro, I ventured off planning to get
wonderfully lost, taking in the beauty of Ghana by exploring. In the mood to
talk and get out of my head, when a group of people called me over, I decided
to come to their beckoning hands and chorus of “Bra” (come).
Deciding to come was a wonderful
decision on my part. After the usual pleasantries that come from talking to
curious strangers, one of the ladies turned to me informing me that her sister
was deaf and inquiring if I could communicate with her. Growing up with a
mother who is a Teacher of the Deaf, I know some sign language-not as much as I
would like but still, I was overjoyed to use it. The joy on her face when she
realized I could speak to her most definitely brought sun beams piercing
through my foul mooded cloud. Her exuberance and normalcy in a society not
exactly handicap accommodating or accepting dispelled any bad feelings I held
onto. After our talk, I walked away thanking God for sending me such a
beautiful moment. It is times like this that make me fall even more in love
with Ghana and the world in general.
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Afi, the Deaf Ghanaian I met that day |